A REVIEW OF “THE PERSON AND THE SEXUAL URGE” IN JOHN PAUL II’S LOVE AND RESPONSIBILITY
A REVIEW OF “THE PERSON AND THE SEXUAL URGE” IN JOHN PAUL II’S LOVE AND RESPONSIBILITY
2.1
INTERPRETATION OF THE SEXUAL URGE
2.1.3 The Sexual Urge and Existence
The concept of
‘sexual urge’ put simply, refers to ‘a strong desire for sex’[1].
However, sexual urge in this work is discussed in connection to and within the
context of human existence, on which depends the existence of the whole species
(Homo).[2]
This therefore, implies that without sexual urge the species (Homo) will go into extinction, because
human kind can be maintained in being, only so long as individual people,
individual men and women, human couples, obey sexual urge. This urge he says
furnishes what we may call the material for love between persons, between a man
and a woman. Hence, without it we cannot speak of the act of procreation and
preservation of the species (Homo) man.
Nevertheless, he pointed out that, although there may be affection between people
who are not sexually attracted to each other, nevertheless the proper end of
the urge, the end per se, is
something supra-personal, the existence and the prolongation of the species (Homo) man.
However, he
observed that the human species is not a being in isolation. The species (Homo) is a part of nature, and the
sexual urge operates within the species to ensure his existence. As such, since
it is a given that existence is the first basic good for every creature, hence,
it follows that the existence of the human species is the first basic good for
man, and that all other goods are derived or depends on it. In other words, we
must exist first and only then we can become anything else, a genius, a saint
and so on, and the natural route by which human beings begin to exist passes
through the sexual urge.
Furthermore, he
argued that ‘existence’ itself is proper to philosophy because, unlike natural
sciences which merely take existence for granted, philosophy concern itself
with the problem of existence. This, he says, is very important when we are
trying to determine the true importance of sexual urge which is obviously implied
in the realms of sexual morality. Hence , he avers that it would be untrue to
assert that sexual urge has a purely biological significant because if we
assent to that then by implication, sexual urge would be regarded as something
to be used, an object to be enjoyed like any other object in nature. But sexual
urge, he says, has an existential character since it is bound up with the very
existence of the human person. However, he maintained that, although sexual
urge is for man to use, it must never be used in the absence of, or worse
still, in a way which contradicts, love for the person.[3]
Hence, he concluded that what give sexual urge it objective importance and
meaning is that it is linked with the very existence of man and his
prolongation.[4]
2.1
Types
of Interpretation
2.2.1 The Religious Interpretation
Only in the
religious interpretation are both persons involved in the expression of the
drive considered as ends in themselves and not reduced to mere tools to be used
as the means to an end such as procreation or sexual gratification. Two persons
come together out of love for each other, to express and enjoy their mutual
complementarity, giving the gift of self to the other and thus, together
participate in the sexual drive, strengthening the bond of their relationship
and being open to fecundity, the gift of life. Husband and wife enter into the
ongoing creation that God has been providentially directing since the opening
verses of Genesis.[5]
This not only gives the sexual drive a deeply religious meaning, but since God
gave the sexual drive for the continuation of the human species and since
humans do not have the reason and source of their being in themselves but have
it from God through their parents the sexual drive also has an existential
value for humankind. Man and woman enter into the marital embrace as equals,
both of them having rationally chosen to do so and each of them actively giving
themselves freely and totally while also actively receiving the gift of the
other. The one flesh union has as its object the purpose of procreation, but it
also strengthens the bond of love between husband and wife by the
representation of the marital promises. When the union is blessed with the
creation of a new person, the parents should be prepared to receive their child
and to lovingly nurture it to spiritual maturity. Thus, married couples become
co-creators with God not only in the physical sense, but by the gift of God's
grace also participate in the spiritual, moral and supernatural spheres of
existence.[6]
2.2.2 The Rigorist and Libidinistic
Interpretations
The presuppositions of the rigoristic
and libidinistic interpretations are both utilitarian and focus on the
material, animal portion of the drive. They diverge from this common root;
while the rigorist seeks to cage and tame its animal pleasure, the libidinist
seeks to free and revel in that same pleasure. For the rigorist the drive
serves only to lead to procreation and through the drive God uses the couple as
the means to that end as do both persons involved. However, for the libidinist,
procreation is merely an accidental side effect as the only significant end is
the gratification derived from sexual contact and reduces the sexual partner to
being merely a toy.[7]
The sexual drive
is a great gift from God to humankind and for it to be properly understood, one
needs to consider the composition of the human being as well as the various ends
for which God created humankind and the best ways to reach those ends. Human
beings are a unity of spirit and matter. God created humans to be social, moral
and sexual beings. Thus, the drive and all other material aspects of human
existence, being goods in themselves, are to be subordinated to the intellect.
The drive is meant to draw individuals of the opposite sex into monogamous
relationships called marriage and being fruitful, raise children in a family
that reflects the shape of the Trinity and to cooperate in God's continuing
creation. The delight derived from the exercise of the drive is not meant for
the objectification and use of others, or to be resisted as a necessary evil,
or even to be reveled in as the greatest good for humankind. It is one aspect
of the material nature of humankind and meant to work as part of the integral
being in harmony with someone of the opposite sex for procreation,
strengthening of the marital bond and a profound expression of love entered
into in as a mutual embrace.[8]
[1] Online Dictionary.
[2] Cf. Karol Wojtyla, Love and Responsibility,
p. 51
[3] Karol Wojtyla, Love and Responsibility,
p. 52.
[4] Karol Wojtyla, Love and Responsibility
, p. 52
[5] Karol Wojtyla, Love and Responsibility
, p. 54
[6] Karol Wojtyla, Love and Responsibility
, p. 54
[7] Karol Wojtyla, Love and Responsibility
, p. 55
[8] Karol Wojtyla, Love and Responsibility
, p. 56
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